If you and your partner are planning to buy a home, this is one of the most important questions you will face:
“How much house can we actually afford?” (Couples Guide)
Not what the bank says. Not what Zillow says. What works for YOUR life.
Start With Your Monthly Comfort Zone
Before looking at homes, sit down together and decide what monthly payment feels comfortable.
This includes:
- Mortgage payment
- Property taxes
- Homeowners insurance
- Utilities
- Maintenance
A good rule of thumb is to keep your total housing payment around 25–30% of your monthly income. But every couple is different.
Just Because You’re Approved Doesn’t Mean You Should Spend It
Lenders may approve you for more than you should realistically spend.
That’s because they are not factoring in your lifestyle—things like travel, eating out, saving money, or future plans.
To understand how lenders calculate this, check out this guide from
Consumer Financial Protection Bureau.
Talk About Your Financial Goals Together
This is where couples need to be honest.
Ask each other:
- Do we want to save aggressively?
- Do we plan to have kids soon?
- Do we want flexibility or the biggest house possible?
Buying a home should support your life—not stress it.
Get a Real Plan (Not Just a Guess)
Before you fall in love with a home, talk with a lender and get pre-approved.
If you need help getting started, we can connect you with trusted local lenders here:
We Help Couples Make Smart Decisions
At the end of the day, our job is not just to help you buy a house—it’s to help you make a smart financial decision as a couple.
If you want help figuring out your numbers, reach out anytime:
Kirk & Sheila Pownall
Real Broker LLC
📞 205-222-8966
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Follow along with our 30-day series for couples buying a home so you can feel confident every step of the way.